Who so curseth his father or his mother, his lamp shall be put out in obscure darkness and his inheritance may be gotten hastily at the beginning, but the end thereof shall not be blessed. It may look like it is working for you now, but the end thereof shall not be blessed. But an upright man’s end shall be peace. You are living a lavish life but your parents are sleeping on mats, struggling for what to eat. That it is not well with some people in life is not because the devil is especially interested in them, but it is because of how they are treating their parent and parent In-law. Parents carry blessings which is called “parental blessings”. This blessing cannot be gotten from anywhere except from your parents.
Wife! Do not forget that without your In-law, your husband would not be married to you now, and do not forget that you are also going to give birth to a son and that these things are going to be reciprocated. You may be young today, but you will be old tomorrow. The same way you are talking about that old woman, that is the same way these children will be saying ‘this old woman. The best way to enjoy your in-laws is to show them love, befriend them, and do them good. But if the moment you stepped into that man’s life and he becomes a different person, his family doesn’t know him again, and he doesn’t remember them again. The family will blame you because it was at the point of your arrival that everything changed. Show yourself friendly to your in-laws so that when you need them, they will be there for you. ‘Somebody may say that his/her father is already dead so that is not his /her business. That’s a lie. Look for the oldest person and make him your father. Take care of him/her as you would your father/mother., because there is a blessing these people are carrying for you, and it is called ‘parental blessing’. You need it.
When Esau lost it, Esau wept bitterly. Because he knew that his life was finished without that parental blessing. He said ‘oh my father do you have only one blessing? Please bless me also. Bless me for I do not want to be a frustrated man.’ If that blessing was not important, then Esau wouldn’t have cried so much. So many people do not care about their parents. The parents undergo hardship and just say: ‘oh Lord, judge between me and my son.’ That is enough to end your destiny. This curse can be reversed on the prayer altar. Jacob was under a curse for 21 years. He was laboring under this curse for 21 years. But one night the bible says he was left alone. He engaged a prayer altar and his prayer was: ‘I won’t let you go unless you bless me.’ The opposite of curse is bless. God reversed Jacob’s curse and from that day, Jacob’s fold started multiplying. Jabez also. The curse his mother placed on him, Jabez reversed it on the prayer altar.
Take your time, pray unto God to help you avoid this curse and if you find yourself doing any of the things mentioned above, stop and pray to God to turn this curse round into a blessing. Amen.